There are two things that you need to know about me in order for this entry to make much sense. 1) I am an extremely independent person. 2) Walking is not a chore for me. For example,
a stubbornly independent person would...
...utilize a bus system instead of asking for a ride even though it takes twice as long and is hardly ever convenient.
...wander around unfamiliar parts of a big city because they got lost using the very same bus system.
...load dirty laundry into a rolling suitcase and wheel it across town to the laundromat, repeatedly.
...drop their carpool buddy off at work 45 minutes early so as not to inconvenience anyone who would have to pick them up that afternoon.
...basically do anything keep from having to ask someone to help them.
Check. Check. Check. Check. Check. Next,
someone who thoroughly enjoys walking would...
...walk an extra 30 minutes to save $2.
...walk down to the local grocery store (approximately 1.5 miles away) with a group of friends over and over just to get a soda and some candy.
...'Run away' to that same grocery store at the age of 5 or 6.
...want to go on hikes every week during the summer.
Another four checks. Now that that has been established, let's get to the point.
We currently only have one car to get both me and Jason to work. So I usually drop Jason off (about 45 minutes earlier than he needs to go in) and then have the car to myself to get myself around. But occasionally Jason wants the car. Today was one of those days. Usually when this happens, I get a ride from my mom, dad (who works in the same building I do), my younger sister, or Jason. I definitely don't lack in people who would be willing to come get me.
But today I forgot I didn't have the car until I was leaving the building. I know that I could have called someone and then waited until they came, but I didn't. It was such a beautiful day, that I decided to walk the 3.3 miles to my parents'.
One of the things I loved most about living in Hawaii was how much of a slower pace everything goes at. I miss being able to take the time to ride the bus. I miss walking to the grocery store. I miss walking to the School of Ed that was distinctly separate from the rest of campus. I miss being able to walk to work. Basically I hate how chained to a car I've become and how I'm always rushing to do nothing important.
So I walked. I enjoyed the sunshine and stopped to smell the roses. It took me over an hour (which is about five times the time it would have taken by car), but I thoroughly enjoyed myself. There is something about walking that is therapeutic for me. It gives me a chance to sort through the thousands of thoughts it my brain. It is great "me" time.
Now, I realize that it isn't always possible to spend five times as long doing something that should be a quick task. I certainly wouldn't be up for making that trek every day. And I know that the craziness that is life will only get crazier from here on out. But I am glad that I took the time today and hope that it will serve as a reminder for me to slow down and enjoy a different side of life more often.